The view that ‘One who speaks does not know’ has intrigued me for most of my thinking life. I ran across this D.C. Lao translation in Vietnam, of all places, in the early 60’s. I’ve referred to it many times over the decades in various ways. Indeed, it stands now on the ‘doorstep’ of this site. (See One who speaks does not know? )
My insight into this truth deepened recently when I realized that we only truly understand what we already know. Thought leapfrogs reality. Thought can’t viscerally grasp the details of reality. Only years of our own life’s experience does that, and even that gut knowing is often below thought’s horizon — sub-thought so to speak.
Strongly held biases and preferences easily drown out our subtlest intuitive knowing. Emotions — needs and fears — are the power broker behind our thoughts. Accordingly, only in moments of deep emotional equanimity are we at peace enough to be impartial. Only then are we able to know what we know without biases skewing our understanding.
I imagine the suggestion that we only understand what we already know sounds odd. This also implies that we can only learn from others what we already intuitively know. When I first suggested it to my family, they just rolled their eyes. It took awhile for them to digest the idea. I have to admit, I circled around this ‘elephant in the room’ for some years before facing it head on. See, I understand, but do I know? (2008); Those Who Speak Do Not Know. So, Why Speak? (2008); Learning What You Know (2010); and You Know (2011). Obviously, this fascinates me, but perhaps I can give it a rest now.