The POLL option only handles 1 question. If you want to answer all 3 questions, list you answer on a 'reply post'.

For example, just write: YYN to answer 1)yes, 2) yes, 3) no.

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1) Are you more mature and wiser now than you were five years ago?

2) Do you think most people would answer question one above as you have?

3) Would they be correct in their assessment?

I'll post the results later. These questions address an important issue which I'll link to after I get some responses... that is, of course, if anyone answers these.

Hey Carl,

That's a hard subject for me. On the one hand, when I look at people in society in general, I seem more mature and wise than when I was younger.

The problem is, I think I'm slowly becoming more self-honest, and I see so much of how I relate to the world as not a whole lot different than when I was younger. These days I'm really seeing my life as a series of desires, which are just as hard to let go of as they were 20 years ago. The difference is I can see how illusionary the satisfaction of desires is, and so I don't put as much stock in satisfying them as when I thought they were "real". In that sense, perhaps there is a bit more wisdom than in my youth.

I think most people would say they are more mature and wiser. I don't necessarily think it would actually be true. For example, I would imagine some people would see maturity as being more responsible, as in working hard for the good life, instead of partying and living only for the day. But to me that's not necessarily maturity, but more just a different set of desires for a different set of circumstances.

But hey, what do I know?

Joe

1) Are you more mature and wiser now than you were five years ago?
**yes

2) Do you think most people would answer question one above as you have?
**yes

3) Would they be correct in their assessment?
**yes

My answer to number 1 is.......Yes
My answer to number 2 is.........Yes
My answer to number 3 is.......No

YYY

1,) Yes
2.) Yes
3.) No

I think you should also ask the age group; considering I am 18, 5 years ago, I was 13. Of course I am more wise now.

It's time to close this poll. Here is the conclusion: Everyone thinks think they are wiser than they were five years ago and that most folks would likewise answer yes. Not surprisingly about half think people would be wrong in their assessment ? I wonder if they think 'wrong' only applies to other people, or to themselves as well.

Now, consider this hypothesis: As humanity's average age increases through modern medicine, so will humanity's average wisdom. The point being that life is a learning process for each of us, and that if we live longer we naturally become wiser. This is a hopeful scenario of humanity's future.

The poll affirms this principle vis-a-vis everyone's subjective judgement. The hitch comes when we asked about our faith in our fellow man. Does the reluctance to apply the same standard to everyone reflect hypocrisy, superiority (ego), or ???

Lynn Cornish:

Might it be that we are comparing our insides with others' outsides? Meaning, we know what is going on inside ourselves and project our fears on to what we think is going on inside of others.

But, sensing that we are wiser than before also comes from within ourselves. Why don't we project that onto other? Mmmm...

When we regard others as strangers and outsiders, we may be innately more apt to judge them negatively, as in... "they are the 'enemy'... it's 'them', not us, who are messing up the world". It may just be the old tribal instinct at work here as well.

yyn

red_tulip:

...but what will you gain from asking these questions?...

The only hope I have been able to see for our species living in balance with nature (well, at least more balanced), is that modern medicine will be greatly increasing life expectancy - stem cells and what not - over the coming centuries.

Life is a learning process, and the longer a person lives, the more chance there is to 'get it'. Of course, once you get whatever you get, you die and your learning goes with you. The next generation has to relearn it all over. Not factual information, of course, but wisdom - that knowing that we realize through experience (not schooling).

Nevertheless, if in several hundred years, we have a world population whose average age is, say, 150, the social, political and cultural dynamics will be far different - more mature - than currently so. More mature means wiser and more able to life in balance with nature. I proposed this solution at the bottom of an essay of ethics, A Silver Lining.

Anyway, whenever I have asked others what they thought about this 'solution' to humanity's problem, they are unconvinced, especially about the idea that people become wiser as the years go by. So, I put up this poll to 'ask' more people. Interestingly, there are some who believe they are wiser, but that the same doesn't hold true for everyone... curious.